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Understanding Your Divorce Entitlements: How Family Mediation Can Help You Achieve a Fair Settlement

Divorce is never an easy process, and one of the most challenging aspects can be understanding what you’re entitled to when it comes to finances and assets. Many people enter into divorce proceedings with preconceived notions of what they should receive, only to find that the reality is quite different.

This blog will guide you through the key considerations in determining financial entitlements during a divorce and explain how family mediation can facilitate a smoother, more amicable resolution.

The Myth of the 50/50 Split

A common misconception is that divorcing couples are automatically entitled to a 50/50 split of all assets. While this might be the starting point for many negotiations, the final outcome often deviates from this simple division. UK law prioritises a fair and equitable distribution of assets, which means that the needs and circumstances of both parties – and any children involved – are carefully considered. Family mediation can play a crucial role here by helping couples reach a mutually agreeable settlement without the need for protracted court battles.

Factors Influencing Financial Entitlements

1. The Welfare of Any Children

  • The needs of any children from the marriage are paramount. This could mean ensuring that the primary caregiver has adequate housing and resources to provide for the children. Through family mediation, parents can collaboratively decide on arrangements that best support their children, making the process less adversarial and more focused on the children’s well-being.

2. Income and Earning Capacity

  • Both your current and future earning capacities are important factors. If one spouse has a significantly higher income or greater potential for future earnings, the other may be entitled to a larger share of the assets or ongoing financial support (maintenance) to balance the disparity. Mediation offers a platform for both parties to discuss their financial futures openly, enabling a fairer agreement that considers the unique circumstances of both individuals.

3. Contributions to the Marriage

  • Contributions aren’t limited to financial ones. Non-monetary contributions, such as raising children and managing the household, are also recognised. The court aims to acknowledge the value of these contributions, which might result in a more favourable settlement for the non-earning or lower-earning spouse. Through mediation, couples can ensure that these contributions are fully acknowledged and respected in their financial settlement, promoting a sense of fairness and mutual respect.

4. The Length of the Marriage

  • The length of the marriage can impact the division of assets. Generally, the longer the marriage, the more likely it is that the assets will be split evenly. However, in shorter marriages, especially those without children, the court might aim to return each party to their pre-marriage financial status. Family mediation can help tailor the financial settlement to reflect the unique aspects of your marriage, considering both the length of the relationship and the individual circumstances involved.

5. Standard of Living

  • The standard of living enjoyed during the marriage is another key consideration. The aim is to allow both parties to continue a lifestyle similar to that which they enjoyed while married, within the bounds of what is financially feasible. Mediation enables couples to discuss their expectations and aspirations for their post-divorce lives, facilitating a settlement that reflects the lifestyle both parties wish to maintain.
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Types of Financial Orders

When determining financial entitlements, the court can make several types of financial orders. However, mediation can often help couples reach agreements on these issues without needing a court order, making the process quicker, less costly, and more cooperative.

1. Property Adjustment Orders

  • These orders involve the transfer or sale of property, with proceeds being divided between the parties. The court might order the family home to be sold and the proceeds shared, or it may transfer ownership to one spouse, particularly where children are involved. Mediation allows couples to explore various options regarding the family home, potentially reaching a solution that avoids the emotional strain of selling the property.

2. Lump Sum Orders

  • One party may be required to pay a lump sum to the other. This could be to balance out the division of assets, particularly if one spouse retains the family home. Through mediation, couples can negotiate lump sum payments in a way that feels fair and manageable to both parties, rather than relying on a court-imposed decision.

3. Spousal Maintenance

  • Spousal maintenance (or alimony) is financial support paid by one spouse to the other after divorce. This is more likely where there is a significant income disparity or where one spouse has been out of the workforce for a significant period, for example, due to child-rearing responsibilities. Mediation provides a space for discussing spousal maintenance openly, helping to ensure that both parties’ needs are met without fostering resentment or conflict.

4. Pension Sharing Orders

  • Pensions are often one of the most valuable assets in a marriage. A pension sharing order allows for one spouse’s pension to be split, shared, and transferred into the other’s name or for a lump sum to be paid from the pension pot. Mediation can help demystify the complexities of pension sharing, allowing both parties to reach an agreement that secures their financial future.

Prenuptial Agreements and Their Impact

Prenuptial agreements can play a significant role in determining financial entitlements. Although not automatically legally binding in the UK, they are increasingly given weight in court, provided they meet certain criteria, such as both parties having received independent legal advice and the agreement being fair at the time of divorce. If you have a prenuptial agreement, it’s essential to discuss its terms with your solicitor to understand how it may impact your entitlement to assets and financial support. Mediation can also be a valuable tool for discussing the implications of a prenuptial agreement, potentially preventing disputes from arising in the first place.

Blog: Five reasons why you might need a Prenuptial Agreement

It may seem odd, or even counter-intuitive, to be discussing separation and divorce at a time when you are finalising your wedding plans, but with around one third of marriages ending in divorce, statistics should prompt you to at least consider what the financial outcomes might be were you to divorce.

A Blog by Jane Auty, Partner and Head of Family Law

The Importance of Legal Advice and Mediation

Navigating the financial aspects of a divorce can be complex and emotionally taxing. It’s crucial to seek independent legal advice tailored to your specific circumstances. A solicitor specialising in family law can help you understand your rights, negotiate a fair settlement, and, if necessary, represent your interests in court. However, before heading to court, consider family mediation as a first step. Mediation can provide a more amicable, cost-effective way to resolve disputes, allowing you to maintain control over the outcomes rather than leaving them in the hands of a judge.

Final Thoughts

Divorce can bring financial uncertainty, but understanding what you are entitled to can provide some reassurance. The process involves careful consideration of multiple factors, from the needs of any children to the length of the marriage and the contributions of both parties. Mediation offers a way to navigate these complexities with less conflict, fostering a cooperative atmosphere where both parties can work towards a mutually beneficial settlement. Remember, the goal is not to penalise or reward but to ensure a fair distribution of assets that allows both parties to move forward with financial security.

If you’re going through a divorce, ensure you have the right legal support to guide you through this challenging time. At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our experienced family law solicitors are here to help you understand your rights and secure a fair settlement. And if you’re looking for a less adversarial approach, we also offer family mediation services to help you reach an agreement that’s in everyone’s best interests.

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